School Holidays

School Holidays must be the bane of every working parent.  Some children are having a 3 week break whilst others are having the prescribed 2 weeks.  Most grandparents do what they can to assist but there are limits if they are still working or if health is an issue.  Out of Hours School Care is available in some areas but is costly, and many children need to go to a centre they are not familiar with which may be a little traumatic.  My 6 year old grand daughter doesn't see why there needs to be holidays, but she is still loving school so much that she is unaware of the broader picture - she is a very tired little girl.
It is mid year so everyone needs a break to refresh for the final onslaught of the school year.  Although my daughter in law doesn't work I still try to have the children a day each during the break.  It is quality time for child and grandparent and is a fun time and a little chance to spoil them individually.  These holidays I have had to double up and take both the grandsons together but am looking forward to it.  They all have their likes and dislikes and it is a prime time to indulge.  My 6 year old granddaughter came last week and loves playing on the swing, cooking, crafting and anything to do with clothes and makeup.  However we arranged a young cousin to come too so the two girls chatted and played, had pancakes for lunch. took turns on the swings and just generally had a great day.

No 1 Granddaughter on the swing.

Am not sure what to do with the boys this week, No 1 grandson will want to play on the computer and download games.  His younger brother is like a balloon let loose sometimes, changing activities frequently, however, he is happiest watching big brother or playing with cars.  I am hoping for a fine day so that he can play outside for a short while.  He is so loving and has such a generous nature,  Their little sister is still a little young to have a play like this but is not far from joining in.  Next weekend I am having ALL FOUR for the night.  Panic time me thinks.  (Will fill you in on that chapter next week.)
My other granddaughter (No 2.) came to visit Friday and was her usual loving, busy little person.  She so loves the horse next door.
I am lucky, because I get to enjoy my beautiful grandchildren, they are never a chore or a drain on me and everyone is aware of my physical limitations in putting in time and effort with the little darlings.  But, as at the beginning of the story, many grandparents are the main caregivers during the school holidays and whilst these children are loved and adored they can also be a burden & cost for the older generation.  Another factor is that as many parents are older when they commence their families, grandparents are also older making the babysitting more tiring.  Cost is also an issue if grandparents aren't firm, as many of these generous babysitters are now on fixed income or pension.  Before large amounts of babysitting are taken on by grandparents they must discuss these financial concerns with their children.  Maybe a small donation is warranted, especially is outings are being undertaken.
What ever the situation - enjoy the holidays with the most precious little people you know.